asking for help in making the first move on your crush... from your crush?

interSTELLAr
10:38 A.M.
Stella!
Can you help me with something?
Hellooo!
Sure, what is it?
So uhh
I have this huge crush on this girl
But I don’t how to properly like, get closer to her
or for her to see me in a romantic way
I don’t know how I’ll make the first move
so could you like.. help me?
oh
uhm
sure!
how can I help you though?
just like, give me some advice or tips
those would help me out a lot!
okay so
first question
are you guys moots on social media?
yup!
here’s some tips I think I could give you!
first, do NOT start with a DM
it comes off as too strong and you may get ignored
since you said you guys are moots, you could try replying to one of her IG stories!
like when she posts food you can reply with “That looks so good, where did you get that?”
this works because it’s a pretty natural interaction anddd you have a reason to speak to her!
but what if it’s like, a picture of her?
normally I’d stay away from doing that but if you can find a conversation starter in the picture it coulddd work
like you could compliment her, but also ask like “where did you take that? the view looks nice” or something like that
remember to always try to keep the conversation going
making the first move is only the first step, but getting the conversation flowing is much harder.
ohhhhh okay, i think i get it!
after making your move, try finding some common interests!
you could try asking her friends, or maybe stalk her socials to see what she likes
if you find any common interests like games, anime or music, those are always good conversation starters!
“Oh you listen to K-pop too? Which group do you like?”
instant connection
ohhhhh, i think i already know a few of her interests
so yeah I think that could work
that’s… nice
good for you
ANYWAYS
if you guys get closer, you could do some subtle things in person as well!
like the 3 second rule! eye contact for 3 seconds, smile then look away
subtle but effective ackkkkkk
OR compliment her then act like it was a casual thing
like “those glasses really suit you” then IMMEDIATELY WALK AWAY
DON’T WAIT FOR HER REACTION
TRUST ME, THAT WORKS SO WELL
wait wait wait
why do you seem like you’re so experienced at romance
yet you’ve never had a boyfriend, right?
OH
UHM
I just play a lot of romance genre games yk????
I’m basically a romance connoisseur atp
!!!
ANYWAYS
it would be better if you had a wingman/wingwoman!
the type that would tease you towards her
I can be that wingwoman if you want! I think I’d do a pretty good job at that ;>
uhhh no thank you
I don’t think it would work quite well
why not?? :(((
just… reasons
alright thennn, offer’s on the table if you want it anytime
OH
HERE’S A COUPLE MORE THINGS
accidental touches! BUT FOR A SECOND ONLY
LIKE WHENEVER YOU HAND HER STUFF, ACCIDENTALLY BRUSH AGAINST HER HAND
ackkkkkk
andddd you could shoot your shot BUT in a casual manner
don’t go “I like you, let’s go on a date”
NOOOOOO
maybe something like
“It’s getting pretty hot, wanna grab some milktea? My treat if you lose that game you’re playing”
THAT WAY
you have an exit plan!!!
If she refuses, just say “I was just kidding, you’re being too serious.”
SEE?
PRIDE INTACT
okay yeah i think i can do all the tips you’ve given me
but what about some things I shouldn’t do?
I’d like to avoid making any mistakes
hmmm
do not confess immediately! she’ll definitely grow distant
and maybe don’t like any posts from a couple years back, that’s stalker behavior
OH AND
DON’T answer “no reason, just want to talk to you” when she asks why you’re speaking to her. It would be too obvious!!
ohhhhh okiess, I think i could avoid doing those
these tips have been so helpful
i’m… glad
just remember this golden rule
the first move is just the start of it all, it’s how you keep the conversation going and how you make her fall for you is what matter the most!
your goal here is to open the door for you guys to get closer, and if she accepts, then good for you
if not, at least you tried
OH AND
CONFIDENCE IS KEY!!!
even if you’re nervous, just fake it till you make it.
okay okay!!!
thank you so much stella!!!
I learnt a lot from this, I’m definitely gonna try these on her
no worries
: )

interSTELLAr
7:00 P.M.
you replied to interSTELLAr’s story ↵

where did you take that? the place looks pretty nice
you look great in that photo btw
this was in Okinawa!!!
oh and uhm
thank you!!!!!!!
<3
you went to Japan?
yup! It was a family trip
ohhh nicee! how was it there?
Japan is one of my dream countries to visit
ME TOOOO! Japan was a really beautiful countryy, and I had a fun time geeking out at all the cute and pink stuff there!!!
I spent a lot of money as well…
rip my wallet it got hit by a bazooka
ANYWAYS
If you want I can show you my Japan shopping haul!!
sureee! I’d love to

interSTELLAr
1:43 P.M.
Stella!
I’m getting pretty bored over the weekendd
could you recommend me some games I could play?
hmmmmm
I’m really into Animal Crossing right now but I don’t think you would enjoy it as muchh
Minecraft?
Minecraft works! would you be down to play together?
oh and I can try Animal Crossing to see if I could enjoy it
would you be… willing to teach me?
sure! I’d love to <3

interSTELLAr
6:00 P.M.
was Jiwoo teasing us together?
oh uhm yeah LMAO
she said we’d look good together
and that we’ve gotten closer over time
so she ships us now
interSTELLAr unsent a message.
what was that? I didn’t quite see it
NOTHING!!!!
oh and tell Jiwoo we’ve just gotten closer over the days
you’re not bothered by it?
by what?
by Jiwoo shipping us
I don’t really mind…
do YOU mind?
Hahahahah
no
I don’t mind at all
that’s great then
I MEAN
IT’S GREAT
THAT
IT DOESN’T BOTHER YOU
SO THINGS DON’T BECOME AWKWARD
YES
Hahahahaha i understand
no need to overreact
though I find it cute
WHAT
?!?!?!?!?!
see you tomorrow, cutie!
the unsent message:
She’s right, we would look good together indeed.

interSTELLAr
2:00 P.M.
any song recommendations?
that’s a very random thing to ask out of the blue
but suree i guess
Best Part by Daniel Caesar
Rewrite the Stars by James Arthur and Anne-Marie
Love Story by Taylor Swift!!!
basically any Hearts2Hearts song
okay ykw why don’t i just send you my playlist?
I mean… yeah sure!
why’d you suddenly ask by the way?
uhmmm
just trying out a new taste in music!
expanding your music taste wouldn’t hurt, right?
oh okay then!! I’ll send it to you later : )

interSTELLAr
5:00 P.M.
hey
I’ve just noticed that you’ve been acting quite weird lately
weird? how so?
you’ve been… nicer? or… closer?
you’ve complimented me more on smaller things and noticed a lot of things about me
like on my glasses or you noticed that I got a haircut
you’ve been asking a lot of questions as well! some of those I thought you knew already but apparently not LMAO
is that… a bad thing?
NO
i mean
no not really
it makes me feel
seen
and I like that
that’s good to hear : )
are you busy right now?
just playing some games rn, why?
It’s getting pretty hot outside… how about we get some tangerine jelly smoothies if you lose? my treat
why the sudden treat ..?
and why are you acting like this
no reason, just wanted to talk to you
what
OH
OH I HATE YOU
YOU’RE PRANKING ME AREN’T YOU
THESE ARE MY TIPS THAT I GAVE YOU
AND YOU’RE USING THEM ON ME
YOU THINK THAT WAS SLICK HUH
you finally realized
there’s a reason why I’m saying them to you in the first place
wait so does that mean
I’m the crush you were referring to?
finally
yes, stella.
oh i hate you even more
no you don’t
you don’t know that
if you did hate me, why are you still replying?
yeah you’re right, i don’t
and if it wasn’t obvious
I like you too.

my pink princess
5:00 P.M.
this wouldn’t be a dandlndan stella fic without a little bit of fourth wall breaking now, would it?
I hope you guys enjoyed this… honestly was just a spur of the moment thing when orenji asked me “stella fic when” last night LMAO
I was originally planning for it to be on dandan’s message history but it genuinely went on more than I expected so I’m migrating it to be a short text-fic oneshot instead : )
I promise I’ll be working on a proper Leeseo fic after this though
uhhh stella…? wtf is going on?
It’s nothing, don’t mind it! hihi
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