You know how in a lot of stories and fanfiction, where Y/N or MC are in situations that are CLEARLY messy and fucked up. They KNOW the situation is messy and fucked up, but they choose to go ahead with it anyway, thinking that they can handle it or because their established partners or friends either guilt-trip or peer-pressure them into doing it.
But the moment these bitches see that it’s getting too much for them or the guilt is catching up to them and weighing on their conscience, THAT’S when they realise that they don’t want to do it anymore and they want out. And by then, they are already balls deep into it.
Now listen, they do have the right to back out and withdraw consent whenever they want, but I look at the book or my phone screen like: what were you expecting, and what did you think was going to happen?
Like sis, you KNEW how fucked up it was, but you CHOSE to go ahead with it anyway, being confident and thinking you could handle the heat. That’s on you. Backing out when you’re already balls deep in it is not going to take back the choice you made.
Do I have an offender of this? Yes, I do. Let’s get into it.
Y/N from Monachopsis by personasintro
So, our Y/N has been married to her rich billionaire CEO husband named Yeonseok, for three years. They want to have a baby, but they can’t coz Yeonseok is infertile. Obviously, both of them were upset by the news since they both want to have a family
Y/N suggests adoption and a sperm donor. Yeonseok refuses both of them coz he doesn’t want to raise a kid that ain’t biologically his and to “continue the bloodline.” Weird to want to deny yourself kids because you want biological kids to continue the family bloodline, but okay.
Then he comes up is a new idea: ask his younger estranged brother, Yoongi (yes, this is a Min Yoongi FF), to be a sperm donor for them, and they get to have a child AND continue the family bloodline.
I’ll be honest, I had no idea that it’s common for couples to ask family members to be donors when I asked my aunt about it. But I had a feeling that this plan was going to backfire and blow up in Yeonseok and Y/N’s faces (this is going to be important.)
And if we’re being honest, it’s funny how Yeonseok will be basically raising a kid that ain’t biologically his, the very reason he refused adoption and a sperm donor. But hey, at least he and the baby will be blood-related. So, yay for him?
Y/N was rightfully uncomfortable with Yeonseok’s idea coz sis has never talked or interacted with Yoongi except for seeing him occasionally at family dinners. Plus, the Min family don’t talk about him unless they’re talking about how he’s a disappointment, and how Yeonseok is better and successful than him. But she does eventually decide to go ahead with his plan after seeing two parents with their kid, even though she herself doesn’t care whether the baby is blood-related or not, she wants to have kids.
The baby fever is strong in this one, amirite?
But here’s the thing: Yeonseok and Yoongi have beef. Well, Yeonseok has beef with Yoongi. Yoongi doesn’t give a fuck about Yeonseok, and Yeonseok is out here letting Yoongi live rent-free in his head. The hatred Yeonseok has towards Yoongi is arguably on par with Kendrick Lamar; that’s just me.
Yeonseok is the golden child, but really, he’s just his parents’ puppet. Deadass, this man has never had an opinion that wasn’t an echo of his parents. This whole “family bloodline” nonsense is what his parents want.
Yoongi is the outcast, black sheep and rebel problem child because god forbid the brutha dares to want individuality, but he’s in debt, and Mama and Papa dearest cut him off.
So they go visit Yoongi to strike up a deal: be the sperm donor in exchange for paying off his debt. Sounds simple enough, right? He’ll just offer his semen, get his bag and be on his merry way to pay off his debt and open up his tattoo shop.
WRONG!
Remember when I said it was going to blow up in their faces?
Yoongi hits them with the: aight. But we ain’t doing that clinical shit. We’re going natural.
…..
Of course, Yoongi was going to accept the offer with the condition TO FUCK HIS SISTER IN LAW.
Yeonseok objects to this for OBVIOUS reasons. There’s no way he’s going to let his brother fuck his wife. At least he’s got some brain cells.
But Y/N being Y/N did what Y/N does best and said she’ll do it.
BITCH WHAT?!
Like honey. I know you’re desperate and your husband didn’t give you any options, but you do know that accepting Yoongi’s condition is going to cause problems in your marriage, right? Like you already know that your husband LOATHES his brother. Like, he has that Kendrick Lamar and Drake hate in him.
WHY ON NAMJESUS’S NAME WOULD YOU ACCEPT IT?! WHY?!
EVEN YOUR HUSBAND TOLD YOU THAT YOU DIDN’T HAVE TO DO IT. BUT YOU HIT HIM WITH THE: You refused every suggestion and option I gave you.
Which is true BUT STILL?!
Even Yoongi, the dude who instigated this mess, asked her if this was REALLY what she wanted and told her that she can back out, coz as much as he doesn’t fuck with his brother, he doesn’t want to break up their marriage and he only put that condition to get back at Yeonseok out of sheer pettiness. Y/N says that’s what she wants. And Yoongi is like: bet
So Yoongi and Y/N get busy trying to get her pregnant, and Y/N is starting to like fucking her bro in law so much it she can’t even do it with her own husband (shocker 😒), and obviously she starts feeling guilty about it.
And when the guilt becomes too much THAT’S when she decides to end the deal.
I’m sorry WHAT?!
Like, I’m not mad that she decided to pull out. Like I said at the beginning, she’s within her rights to back out and withdraw her consent.
But WHY DID IT TAKE YOU UNTIL THIS DEAL STARTED AFFECTING YOUR MARRIAGE FOR YOU TO REALISE: hmmm! Maybe I don’t want this.
YOU HAD OPTIONS. DIVORCE!
Y/n: I can’t just -
Me: Divorce
Y/n: We could work something out-
Me: Divorce
Y/n: Not everything can be solved by-
Me: Divorce
She could have threatened him with divorce to get him to agree to her suggestions.
And right when the pressure and confusion and the confusion was starting to get to her that’s when she decided to back out of this messed up deal with Yoongi?
And I personally think the only reason why she even considered backing put is because it was an easy way out and her wanting to avoid what she truly feels about all this.
Solid plan right?
NOPE! She ended up pregnant anyway. Now she CAN’T runaway and avoid her problems like she planned to🙂
And to NO ONE’S surprise. Her marriage is in the pits. How does she solve it? Breaking up with Yeonseok. (They still married btw.)
And listen. I get that temporarily moving in with Yoongi was better than moving in with her dad and his girlfriend because Yoongi is the only person familiar with her situation (no shit sherlock. He’s IS the situation) and she doesn’t want to have to talk about it.
But moving in with yo baby daddy, WHO HAPPENS TO BE THE SOURCE AND BLUEPRINT TO THE CONFUSION YOU’RE FEELING, is the last person I’d go to. And you don’t HAVE TO SHARE what’s bothering you to yo pops if you ain’t ready. You could just say “I don’t want to talk about it”, and I’m pretty sure he’d respect your space until you’re ready to talk about it.
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